Saturday, July 28, 2012
The world will tell you that negative behaviors are the way your child tries to manipulate and control you. And that you should punish those behaviors. Look past your child’s negative and challenging behaviors. Shift your paradigm and see these behaviors as your child’s communication for connection with you. Free yourself from all the shoulds of the world. This may be a challenge. Think about how God allows our negative behavior and waits for us to talk with Him. Christian Parent Wisdom #55 - Freedom Christ releases me from old patterns and the shame-based “shoulds” that surrounded me. I can now be all I was created to be and receive all He has for me. I am free to be in a loving relationship with my child. If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. John 8:36 Purchase Christian Parent Wisdom now @ http://bit.ly/mVZggY and receive 30 minutes of phone coaching or a 30 minute spiritual consult for FREE when you mention you heard about this FREE offer though this blog on your purchase order.
Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Withdrawal is all about self-protection. It’s not about being lazy, selfish, or self centered. Summer time activities can easily become over whelming. This may put your child in a survival role. Withdrawal is a common form of self protection. It’s part of our natural fight or flight response to fear. Don’t let your child’s behavior cause you to feel captive and separate you from your child. Celebrate all channeling behaviors as an opportunity to connect with your child and help them progress developmentally. Christian Parent Wisdom #46 - Freedom My freedom in Christ allows me to make choices to improve my relationship with my child. I choose to have a peaceful and harmonious relationship. I choose to focus on God’s good in my child. As servants of God, live as free people. 1 Peter 2:16 Purchase Christian Parent Wisdom now @ http://bit.ly/mVZggY and receive 30 minutes of phone coaching or a 30 minute spiritual consult for FREE when you mention you heard about this FREE offer though this blog on your purchase order.