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Saturday, October 20, 2012

Don't Make Anger Your Focus

Anger is usually the most focused on feeling. This tells us that we are fearful in nature. We are scanning our environment for anger because it is threatening and causes threatening behaviors. If we look for anger we are going to find it. Change your paradigm to look for fear in your children. See fear and you will see love and comfort as the answer. My other articles and newsletters on fear are available to you as a free resource. My book, Christian Parent Wisdom is an excellent resource that combines stress model principles with scriptures in a daily meditation format. Buy Christian Parent Wisdom at http://bit.ly/mVZggY and receive a FREE 30 minute consult with me when you mention that heard about this FREE offer though this Blog on your order.

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Ignore the Behavior, Don't Ignore the Child

Behavior is a communication. Behavior may be the only way a child can express their fear and trauma. Shift your paradigm from behavior change based to being love based and emotionally safe based. That will regulate your child and he can then begin to put words to his fears. You will be creating a safe environment for healing. My other articles and newsletters on fear are available to you as a free resource. My book, Christian Parent Wisdom is an excellent resource that combines stress model principles with scriptures in a daily meditation format. Buy Christian Parent Wisdom at http://bit.ly/mVZggY and receive a FREE 30 minute consult with me when you mention that heard about this FREE offer though this Blog on your order.