Being a Mother Tip #5 - Reverse negative neurological feedback loops.
You can reverse negative feedback loops by interrupting your child’s stress cycle. This will help you connect with your child. Begin by exploring what is contributing to the negative neurological feedback loops within the family. You need to identify your negative reactions to your child’s behavior. Begin to understand what in your past triggers this negative reaction. Understanding this is critical in developing secure attachments with children. You need to have an understanding of your own childhood attachments. Your own history of attachments and relationships is the blueprint you follow. Until this blueprint is changed you will continue to perpetuate negative neurological feedback loops within the family.