Most
shame-based people that I have spoken with know what they need to do different.
The
problem is that they do not follow through with a decision that has the
potential for a positive outcome.
There
are two components of not following through.
A
shame-based person’s internal definition is not congruent with success, and
that keeps them from following through. There is too much unconscious
resistance to taking that first positive step.
The
second component is a spiritual battle.
The
Apostle Paul says in Romans 7:15 (NIV) - “I do not understand what I do. For
what I want to do I do not do but what I hate I do.”
As
Christians, we also know that “The thief comes only to steal and kill and
destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” - John
10:10 (NIV).
Pray
about all of your decisions, and ask others to pray for you.
“I am
able to do all things through Him who strengthens me.” - Philippians 4:13
(NIV).
Identify
a task that you believe you can realistically achieve, and use prayer and
belief to reach a positive outcome.
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Ken Thom, MS, LPC is a nationally recognized Christian counselor and
writer. He is available for parent and individual coaching. Ken is a Post
Institute Certified Family Regulatory Therapist, Certified Coach and Great
Behavior Breakdown Instructor as well as a certified BCI parent trainer. Ken's
book Christian Parent Wisdom is a daily scripture based medication book for parenting
children with challenging behaviors. Contact Ken.
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