Loving behaviors put into action
a very powerful force. That force is God’s love that is in us. We have the
ability to release this love when we stay connected to God. Love connects us to
others and we then help them release the love of God that is within them.
This allows us to appreciate and
respect our family members and friends. We demonstrate forgiveness and grace.
We see the good in ourselves and the good in others.
The more love I give, the more
my love grows because it is fueled by those around me. Conflict is replaced by
a spirit of cooperation.
Ephesians 4:29 “Let no evil talk
come out of your mouths…”
What a powerful statement.
Through your words, you have the power to change situations. You can choose to
provoke anger, discouragement, resentment, and shame.
Breathe, relax, and think before
you speak. Allow yourself time to regulate and connect with the love of God so
you can chose your words wisely. Chose words of grace, peace, appreciation, and
encouragement. If you take time to reflect and become regulated, you allow the
Holy Spirit to work in you and the person you may be having a conflict with.
Given time, the person who has
upset you will have time to regulate. They will be open to connecting with the
love you offer through your words.
Give more love this Christmas
season and experience more love in your life. Love is always available. Take a
few deep breathes and step into the love that is available. Need help in
getting regulated and connecting with God?
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Ken Thom, MS, LPC is a nationally recognized Christian counselor and
writer. He is available for parent and individual coaching. Ken is a Post
Institute Certified Family Regulatory Therapist, Certified Coach and Great
Behavior Breakdown Instructor as well as a certified BCI parent trainer. Ken's
book Christian Parent Wisdom is a daily scripture based medication
book for parenting children with challenging behaviors. Contact Ken.
