The world tells us that negative behaviors are the way that
children try to manipulate and control us, and that we should punish these
actions. We must learn to look past a child’s negative and challenging
behaviors, and shift our paradigm to see these behaviors as the child’s
communication for connection with you. We must free ourselves from the
‘shoulds’ of the world. This will be challenging, but we must think about how
God allows our negative behavior and waits for us to talk with Him. John 8:36,
says “If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.”
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Ken Thom, MS, LPC is a
nationally recognized Christian counselor and writer. He is available for
parent and individual coaching. Ken is a Post Institute Certified Family
Regulatory Therapist, Certified Coach and Great Behavior Breakdown Instructor
as well as a certified BCI parent trainer. Ken's book Christian Parent Wisdom is
a daily scripture based medication book for parenting children with challenging
behaviors. Contact Ken.